Flirty Things to Say to Your Lover or Crush via Text Message… AKA: Flirtexting

Thanks to technology, girls and guys now get to interpret text messages as a means of communication, flirting, and joking around. Texting back and forth with friends and significant others becomes a habit as much as a convenience. There’s something to be said for being able to instantly and silently communicate with your sweetheart anytime, anywhere (just about).

Flirting via text message can be a lot of fun in an established relationship or a new relationship, but while fun and exciting, it can also be partially confusing in a new relationship. I recently had a male friend of mine ask me what he should respond to his new love interest’s text message, “Just bought a cute sundress for the weekend!”

Flirtexting: How To Text Your Way To His HeartAt the time, I wasn’t sure how serious the two of them were, so I asked my friend if they usually joke around or if they tend to be pretty straightforward. I could think of half a dozen flirty text messages for him to text back, but I didn’t want to give him the wrong advice or even the right advice at the wrong time. He took my advice to simply gauge his response based on the dynamics of their relationship – joking around.

Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz recognized the rising trend of flirting through text messages and thus came up with their book, Flirtexting: How To Text Your Way To His Heart. Together, Goldstein and Baniuszewicz share the following fun flirtexts, or flirty text messages, that guys could send to girls as well as a few somewhat racy flirtexts that girls could send to their steady boyfriends.

Here is a list of some fun flirtexts guys could send girls – mostly to ask them out – from Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz:

Flirty Texts for Guys to Send to Girls They Like:
•    What’s a guy gotta do to get a 5’8 (pretty attractive) brunette to go to dinner with him? (*Girls like it when you don’t gush and awe over them right off the bat. Small subtleties or hints of her attractiveness will make her blush and speak volumes without outright saying it.)

•    Drinks with a handsome funny guy named Phil. Who’s in? OR Drinks with a handsome funny guy named Phil? If you’re in raise your hand.

•    Dinner and a movie? Please inquire within.

•    I was just talking with X (your best friend), she/he thinks we should get married. Spring wedding sound good? (Expect an LOL response.)

•    Your company, my American Express. You name the spot.

•    Cancel all your plans. You’re mine tonight.

•    Word on the streets is Resto has the best hamburgers in town. I don’t believe it. Taste test this weekend?

•    Be ready at 8. I’m taking you out.

– Suggestions courtesy of Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz

Here are some great flirtexts for girls to send their boyfriends to keep relationships exciting! Please note, Goldstein and Baniuszewicz only recommend these flirty text messages to girls in serious relationships.

Keep Reading: Flirty Texts for Girls to Send to Their Steady Boyfriends…

18 thoughts on “Flirty Things to Say to Your Lover or Crush via Text Message… AKA: Flirtexting”

  1. You’re so hot, you’re making my beer warm.
    If you were a pill I’d overdose.
    Are those space pants? Cuz your ass is out of this world.
    Is your father’s tottie a chili? because you’re fucking hot

  2. “I was just talking with X (your best friend), she/he thinks we should get married. Spring wedding sound good? (Expect an LOL response.)”
    1. If you are going to propose be SERIOUS
    2. If I did post that and got an lol reply I’D BE VERY UPSET!!!

  3. I always say ‘I wish u were here to get me in bed’ or ‘i want u now’ btw im pregnant w/ him and im newvus wish me wukk

  4. send something like I wish you were here…In my room…I’d turn off the lights…And show you my…GLOW IN THE DARK WATCH!!!What’d you think i was gonna say??? 😆 😉 😛 🙄 8) 😀

  5. if you need a reason to txt the guy you like, just say ” im so bored i could go help the dog chase cars” it will let him c that ur funny and cute,

  6. hey(guys name), you were in my dream last night 😉 always works and makes them wanting more info… 😛

  7. Guys love it when chics send us stuff like that, Telling us that they are all lonely and cold in there bed wanting us to go and warm them up. Saying that skin on skin is the warmest. it drives us crazy. 😉

  8. Always send some kinda of flirty forward that u can make up it works I do it everyday wit my crush back and forth try it !!! 8)

  9. no… no, no, no, no… NO!
    For the love of God! Don’t EVER do anything like that! It’s too slutty to say if you want a relationship and I would never think anything good of those messages guys are meant to send to girls… shame on you 😡 😡 😡

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