Whether you plan to pucker up for a special date, a blind date, or pure bliss on Valentine’s Day, perfecting your kissing technique can work wonders for your relationship. If you want to know how to have a sexy kiss, you might first try by taking cues from your lover. How does he or she tend to kiss you? Try to follow suit and spice things up here and there when you can.
When all else fails, talk to your sweetheart about their impression of the perfect kiss and then work to create it! Whether you are a beginner at smooching or an expert kisser, consider these kissing techniques to help you have a sexy kiss.
Try Casual or Hard-to-Get during the Day and Passionate at Night
Kissing can of course lead to other things, so sometimes keeping your kisses casual during the day can be a good thing if you don’t have time to spend quality time together. You can offer soft and sweet kisses to show you care, or you can throw all your cares to the wind and attack-kiss your sweetheart. It all varies on how you want to approach the day with your kisses.
“I believe that just a casual kiss on the cheek throughout the day builds to a more passionate night,” says Kathy Scott of Idaho.
Vary your Kisses with Short Pecks and Longer Kisses
Keep your kissing technique exciting and sexy with a variety of short pecks and longer, sensual kisses. You can entice your lover, tease, or tempt, all with the way you deliver your sexy kisses. Sometimes a short, quick peck on the lips is all we get on the way out the door to work, but don’t let that be the only kind of kiss you get. Make sure you set aside quality time to spend with your mate, and be sure to share a few sexy kisses.
“A sexy kiss is made up of short pecks which lead into longer kisses,” Michele Guinsburg of Texas recommends.
“I think the perfect sexy kiss includes soft little puckers on the lips,” adds Tatiana Masone of New York. “This is my favorite way to kiss my boyfriend; also to create the perfect little pucker, I keep the lip gloss and lip stick to a minimum during this time because when I’m done kissing him, I do not want him wearing the same color lipstick as me.”
Sweeten your Smooch with Flavored Lip Gloss or Lip Balm
Many girls and guys alike are suckers for sweet flavored lip balms and lip gloss products. Avoid chapped lips, which can be a real drag and sometimes a turnoff, by simply using lip balm, ChapStick, or lip gloss on a regular basis. If you get dry and chapped winter lips, you will be happy to hear that Neosporin is now offering lip therapy treatments to combat dry and chapped lips.
“For a sexy kiss I use flavored lip gloss,” says Catherine Kister of OH. “It not only makes your lips soft, supple, and kissable, it adds a little surprise of tasty flavor for your sweetie when you smooch. You can even make a sexy game out of guessing what the flavor is.”
Enjoy your sexy kisses!